The world of relationships is tricky, and that's even if you don't put your foot in your mouth and say something stupid. We all do it eventually, we're only human. People are idiots, generally, and we're no exception. Having said that, there's a few things you should keep in mind that no guy wants to hear from a woman he's dating or wants to date.
I like you as a friend
Not only is this statement a huge kick in the junk, it's also a major cliche. As are the variations that include; "I love you but I'm not in love with you" "You're like a brother to me" and so fourth. Come up with a new tactic, be brutally honest. Something like "You'll never, ever, ever see me naked so stop even thinking about it." might hurt a bit, but it's better to say it sooner and allow the poor sap to move on rather than hold on to the hope that you'll eventually change your mind.
Anything that involves the phrase "my boyfriend" when referring to another man
This includes "ex-boyfriend" They don't care and they're not interested.
My parents want to meet you
Ya...um...feeling's not terribly mutual. Wait, they're buying dinner? Ok, that lessens the blow a little, sure not a lot mind you. But a little.
Do I look fat in this?
Ladies..we never want to hear the truthful answer..do yourselves a favour and stop asking..
And finally guys never want to hear overly ambitious instructions in..uh..the bedroom. Not to get to graphic, but going overboard is a turnoff for both parties. Helpful suggestions are great,sure, but acting like you're reading a roadmap? Not so much. Leave statements like "is it in yet" or "so and so used to do this..." out of it.
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